I Picked Up the Sock Today

The fifth Friday of isolating due to COVID-19 begins cold, windy and overcast. Days like this tend to be the days I sit a lot, scrolling social media or binge watching random shows. Spring Cleaning has progressed nicely this week and there is only one more room and a closet to complete. So instead of settling into my recliner and beginning the endless cycle of numbing, I decided to do one thing. I picked up the sock.

We have lived in our house for almost four years. For the majority of that time, our neighbors to the west of us were a couple about fifteen years older than us who worked in the western part of the state during the week. We would catch a glimpse of them briefly on the weekend, but we did not interact much. Last Fall, we saw their cars much more often and then a few weeks before Thanksgiving a rented moving van appeared. I soon found out that due to medical issues, the couple would be moving to a smaller house a few miles away. The new homeowners were going to do some painting and other updating. After the beginning of the new year, a steady stream of workers were seen going in and out of the house. That is when the sock appeared.

One of our favorite things about this neighborhood is the easy walkability. There are sidewalks throughout and a short walking path around one of the three ponds. There are squirrels, rabbits, ducks, geese, and occasionally a couple of deer. Right next to the sidewalk at the neighbors’ house was a dirty sock. Every time I walked past the sock I would think about picking it up, but justified leaving it there with several mental arguments. “It isn’t my sock, not my responsibility.” “What if the sock’s owner came back looking for the sock and I had moved it?” “It is awfully dirty, I wouldn’t want to catch anything.” So, the sock lingered there on the lawn. Now, I am not the only person who walks along that sidewalk every day. Even before the “safer at home” declaration there was an active walking or running contingency in the neighborhood. Now that so many people are working from home, there is even more pedestrian traffic. And still, the sock sat there.

So, in an effort to do the next right thing, I picked up the sock. I grabbed an old Target sack, put my hand in it and treated it similar to Pippen’s yard decorations. Did the sun come out from behind the clouds? Did the birds sing a new song? Did COVID-19 disappear? No, of course not. But I feel like I accomplished something and now I am inspired to get into the guest room and get busy cleaning out that closet and setting things right in one little area of my life. Later today, I may eat some chocolate and watch something on Netflix, but for now I’m going to keep moving.

My Favorite Way to Pass the Time

Today marks the beginning of my fifth week of self isolation due to the pandemic. During that time I have been to the grocery store three times, picked up dog food at the vet, made one Sonic run, gotten take out sushi twice, and picked up Easter dinner. I have gazed at my granddaughter from afar and watched her grown via FaceTime and social media. My husband is still going to work during the week as he works at an essential business, but his commute home is much quicker. We are cooking new recipes and baking chocolate chip banana bread. Our pup has gotten very spoiled and loves having us home so much. I am slowly conducting Spring Cleaning and finding many treasures throughout the house.

My favorite means of occupying myself in good times and bad is to read. Growing up in my mother’s libraries, I learned to love books of various types. I enjoy a cozy mystery, a good memoir, a spiritual examination of Scripture, romance, modern literary fiction, and historical fiction. I am not a big fan of magical realism, thrillers, or fantasy. I read hardbacks, paperbacks, and e-books. In the last few years, I have embraced the audio book through Audible and the Libby app.

While examining the books I read in March, I decided to go back to the first of 2020 and analyze all of the books I have read so far this year. In my own unique categories I noticed that they fell into five areas: Audible books, Cozy Mysteries, Spiritual and Personal Growth, Memoir, and Literary Fiction. This may be a little confusing since some of the Audible books are a mixture of the other genres, but I want to discuss them in one post for to highlight the strengths and weaknesses of audio books. Also, Spiritual and Personal Growth books often have elements of memoir built into their message.

I have broken out the Memoir works that do not have a spiritual component to them into their own category. There are four memoir types that fit this description.

Garlic and Saphires by Ruth Reichl – Reichl describes her experience as the food critic for the New York Times. Her tales of creating various characters with unique costumes, hair styles, and mannerisms transport the reader diverse restaurants in the mid 1990’s in New York City. Listening to this memoir on the Libby app brought the food and ambience of New York City to life.

Hill Women by Cassie Chambers – Hill Women is the latest in the trend of memoirs relating a childhood in remote areas such as Educated by Tara Westover. Chambers focuses her writing around the strong women of the Appalachia Mountains that shaped her life. She focuses on the poverty that dominates the region. She was able to escape the common fate of her classmates and family members due in part to her mother’s education as well as her own hard work and pursuit of higher education. My experience working with the Appalachia Service Project while serving as Youth Minister at my church made this book of special interest. I obtained an Advanced Reader Copy of this book and read it on my Kindle.

The Durrels of Corfu by Michael Haag – Not technically a memoir, this tale of the Durrel family fills in the gaps of Gerald Durrel’s memoir My Family and Other Animals. Durrel’s family spent several years on the island of Corfu between 1935 and 1939. However, Haag begins with family’s time in India before Gerald’s birth and follows them throughout Gerald’s life. Although I read this books on Kindle, I think a physical copy would have been more enjoyable due to the many family photos Haag was able to obtain and share.

Mayor Kane by Glenn Jacobs – Scrolling through NetGalley last Fall, I saw the autobiography of Kane from World Wrestling Entertainment, Inc. I received an Advanced Reader copy electronically thinking my husband might want to read it due to his love of the sport. He has not gotten around to reading it yet, but I am glad I had it available. Jacobs’s experience as a professional wrestler is told as the American Dream experience. He was able to utilize hard work to rise in the ranks to become a Superstar as the character Kane. Jacobs ultimately took that knowledge and celebrity and ran for Mayor of Knox County, Tennessee as a libertarian. Jacobs shared his political beliefs in the book in an concise manner.

My next post will highlight the Audible Books that I have enjoyed so far this year. I hope you are staying safe, washing your hands, finding new recipes and show to bing.